Columnist and activist says he doesn't believe in "the one." March 24, 2011— -- When sex columnist and activist Dan Savage started his advice column, "Savage Love," he had no idea that his open, ...

1. Quick & dirty question about online dating: What’s the best next step after texting? Audio message? Phone call? Video date? Or a quick, in-person meet-up? I recommend a quick video call — a brief ...

I’m a gay man in my fifties, comfortable in my skin, but I suffered severe bullying throughout school, which was often ...

I'm at the point in my life where I'm a caregiver for my parents and my partner. It's exhausting. I don't have an open relationship with my partner, although I'd like to practice ethical non-monogamy.

I’m off this week. Please enjoy this column that originally ran in December of 2014. — Dan What is your stance on maintenance sex? I'd never thought about the issue until reading Amy Poehler's new ...

Cis-het dude here in my 30s. I've had to spend several multi-month periods away from my wife over the last couple years for work. During the last long separation, I started writing letters — long ...

1. How does one tell the difference between when someone says they love you in a Platonic way and when someone says they love you in a romantic way? One asks a direct question: “That’s nice — but do ...

DEAR READERS: I’m on vacation for the next three weeks — but you won’t be reading old columns while I’m away. You’ll be getting a new column every week, all of them written by Dan Savage, none of them ...