Most people think the benefit of the doubt is compassion. But compassion without verification is negligence. It’s granting someone moral credit they have not earned and cannot uphold. And people rarely respect the generosity they did not have to work for. I. The First Principle: Compassion should never overrule evidence. The moment you give the benefit of the doubt, you silence your own internal witness. Your intuition testifies. Your observations testify. The pattern testifies. But you, acting

Doubt she’ll ever make a return to the internet unless she needs money which judging from how much she was making back then I doubt. But who knows maybe we will get some other ridiculous product of hers that will sell out immediately #belledelphine #bathwater #yapsession

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Healing from Negative Experiences: Self-Care Journey

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in friendship is to assume you know what the other person is thinking. This can show up in situation like assuming they are mad at you because you haven’t heard from them in a while. Or assuming they don’t like you anymore because they hung out with other people. Or assuming they aren’t interested in you because they haven’t texted you back in a couple days. The reality is that we don’t know what’s going on in another person‘s mind. Sure, we could be righ